Saturday, February 26, 2011

The Wind Blew

Friday morning started with a roaring rainstorm, and when that left, it was replaced with insane wind. It blew the lid off my recycle can, it blew the other trashcan flat over on its side. It picked up my birdbath and flung it into the neighbor’s yard like a Frisbee. It blew the door on the cabinet on the back patio open and then it banged it over and over until I went out and wedged the snow shovel against the door to keep it shut. It tumbled two heavy planters down my neighbor’s porch. It tore flashing off a roof by my son’s school. When Maureen and I walked down the street, it blew so hard at our backs that I stumbled and Maureen was literally lifted off her feet. It took her hat off her head and flung it 20 feet in the air and ripped the mittens off her hands. And then somewhere it blew hard enough that our power went out.

We ran errands to kill time, but when we got home, the power wasn’t restored. We opened all the blinds and stayed by the front windows to make the most of the waning light. I called BGE to report the outage. I never realized how many times an afternoon my kids open the fridge or freezer until we had to worry about keeping the cold in so the food wouldn’t spoil.

The kids decided it was an adventure and ran around looking for toys with lights to use as flashlights; I fretted over the lack of bars on my cell phone’s battery. I discovered the one flashlight we own had dead batteries and the only candles we had were tea lights. The toy-as-flashlight thing worked pretty well. So did my laptop, which was mercifully charged.

While the wind continued to howl outside, I called BGE again, just in case they didn’t register my first call. Then I turned the phone off.

Luckily, we have a gas stove. The oven has an electric ignitor, so that was useless, but I lit the burners with matches and made dinner without using the microwave. I felt sort of like Ma Ingalls, cooking and doing the dishes by candlelight, although I’m positive Ma Ingalls wouldn’t have made chicken nuggets and edamame.

The brown and black cat lurked in the shadows, invisible, until I found him by tripping over him and nearly breaking my ankle. The kids ran around in the dark, somehow not falling down, while I peered out the window and wondered why the streetlights were on while all the houses were dark. We all put on extra sweaters.

The wind blew. It blew the sale sign off a house until it crashed down on someone’s car. I debated calling BGE again and decided they probably knew. I debated the chances of them sending a guy up a pole while insane wind whipped around him and decided it was going to be a dark, cold night. I thought about Ma Ingalls again and thought that while she didn’t rely on Tyson for dinner, she probably had to help a screaming preschooler put her underwear on in the pitch black. The kids jumped on their beds while I went through Facebook withdrawal. I finally figured out why people on the prairie went to bed as soon as the sun went down. With no DVR and no Internet and no heat, what else was there to do except get a headache trying to read by candlelight and worry about nodding off and burning down the cabin?

The hubby came home with batteries and better candles, so we had more light. The kids went to bed as usual and I finally gave up reading and went to bed too. The power came back on at 5AM, when the heat kicked on and the hubby had to get up and turn all the lights off. Other than the cold, I decided it wasn't too awful. After all, it did get me in bed at a reasonable hour and I feel more rested than I have in ages.

This morning I went out and picked up all the crap that blew around in the yard and did all the chores from yesterday that didn't get done because they require power. We're all pretty much sick of winter around here, but at least the storm and insane wind was rain and not snow, because then I'd really be crazy.

Monday, February 14, 2011

Menu Plan: Canned Goods Keep Falling On My Toes

Last month, as part of the Can Can Sale at ShopRite, all us awesome Potluck bloggers received boxes and boxes of canned goods. Coffee, beans, veggies, fruit, soup, you name it. I have used a lot of it, but the rest is crammed into a very narrow cabinet next to my dishwasher, and as luck would have it, whichever canned item I need is always at the way back. Which means sitting on the floor and taking everything in front of it out. It's February. My floor is cold. I do not like to sit on it. Plus, every time I restack, it becomes more precarious and when I open that cabinet, things fall on my toes. So my menu plan for this week aims to make that cabinet a tad less crowded.

Here's what we'll be eating this week:

**Caribbean Pot Roast with mashed potatoes--I've yet to figure out what makes this roast Caribbean. The cocoa? Not sure, but it has sweet potatoes in it, and I conveniently have a can of those! Veggies and salad on the side.
**Tangy Pork Chops--Bone-in chops are on sale this week, so I'm going to make this yummy dish, the sauce is just fantastic. More potatoes to go with it, and maybe some kind of green veg.
**Fresh Pasta with Garlic Bread and Caprese Salad--Valentine's Day is shaping up to be a pretty crazed day, schedule wise. But I still want to feed the fam something tasty and special. So we'll be having fresh ravioli from ShopRite's deli section, along with garlic bread and tomato and mozz salad. Valentine's Day might not be Italian, but this meal is. Yum!
**Beef Stirfry Over Rice--I have a yummy and easy recipe for stirfry that uses steam-in-microwave veggies and canned pineapple for a sweet and sour meal that comes together in literally 15 minutes. Salad on the side.
**Chicken Breasts with Spinach-Artichoke Stuffing--The H and I ate at Bonefish Grill last summer and I had this delicious chicken dish topped with goat cheese, spinach, etc. This is my version of it, and I have to say it's pretty darn good. Goat cheese is my new favorite ingredient.
**Tilapia Milanese--The latest issue of Food Network magazine is all Italian. This crispy fish meal looks like something my kids might try, or I could try to pass it off as chicken. Couscous and veggies to go with it.

What are you eating these days?

If you missed it, I have three more posts up at Potluck. How to Make A Menu Plan, Dinner In A Pinch: Tuna Noodle Casserole and Build A Better School Lunch. Go check them out!

Sunday, February 13, 2011

The Amazing Power Of Friendship

Step into any bookstore or check out any online parenting forum and you'll likely find plenty to read about the "Mommy Wars." The so-called Mommy Wars pit working mothers against stay-home moms, breastfeeders against bottle feeders, spankers against non-spankers, you name it. But personally, I've never really felt like the Mommy Wars existed in my own life. Oh sure, we've all had a run in or two with the nasty judgemental playground mom, and I do think the "war" is fought more over the Internet. It's a lot easier to be mean to someone when you don't have to worry about running into them at the grocery store or softball practice.

But most of the strongest rocks in my life are other women, other moms, and that's never been more apparent than in the past few months.

In November, I had knee surgery. In the week it took me to literally get back on my feet, I was overwhelmed with phone calls and messages, wanting to know if I needed anything. One friend familiar with my diet soda problem figured I might be stuck in the house and unable to get out, so she stopped by with a 6 pack. Her timing was impeccable and that small gesture meant so much. Another mom brought Maureen home from school when I just couldn't handle the 5 blocks and back on crutches.

Another time, a Facebook friend made a careless comment that unintentionally hurt my feelings. Again, my inbox was filled with messages saying, "She's wrong."

And just a couple of weeks ago, I lost my job. I was aware the economy was rotten, but after nearly 8 years at the same job, I didn't see it coming. It felt like being punched in the gut. (There's also a lesson in there about not letting yourself become too complacent. Keep your resume updated, even if you think you don't need to.) For awhile, I was very distraught. Who came to the rescue? That's right, those other women, those other moms. Phone calls checking on me. Offers to pass around my resume to people they knew. Offers to babysit my kids so I can go on interviews. One hysterical and slightly juvenile Facebook chat on an evening when I was really down that left me feeling loads better.

We all have our coping mechanisms for getting through tough times. In my world, that means leaning on others when I need it, and offering my shoulder when others need it. Because lacing up the combat boots and going to war over who feeds their kids hot dogs and who feeds organic vegan meals is ridiculous. Underneath the differences, we're all pretty much the same. And combat boots are ugly. Having friends that you can count on makes it pretty awesome to be a mom. A big heartfelt thanks from me to you. You know who you are.

Saturday, February 12, 2011

JoJo Designs Polka Dot Ladybug Toddler Bedding Review


Last month, I mentioned that I'm redecorating the kids room. We never thought we'd be in the city this long. So we didn't really bother doing much with the room. But with the economy, and the rotten real estate market, it doesn't look like we're going anywhere anytime soon. So the time has come to redo the room.

There are some challenges involved, since the room is shared by opposite gender siblings with very different interests and likes. How do you decorate a room for a 6 year old boy with a vast Lego collection that loves trucks and sports AND a 4 year old girl who loves pink and cats and dolls?

The first step was coming up with a color scheme. I'll eventually be sharing photos when the whole room is finished, but the first step was thanks to CSNStores.com.

Maureen likes pink, but she also likes ladybugs, so we ended up with this adorable ladybug bedding set from JoJo Designs. She's very pleased with her super cute and girly bedding and I'm very pleased that we're well on our way to a new room!

The set comes with a fitted sheet to fit a standard crib/toddler bed mattress, a flat sheet, standard pillow case and a standard sham, and a comforter that fits the standard crib mattress. There are also matching options available, from curtains to a cute throw rug.

It came through the wash great and dried quickly. She is comfortable at night. The fitted sheet has deep pockets, which I love. (I hate fitted sheets that pop off!) I also love that the comforter is reversible. It's just as cute on the other side.

Thanks to CSNStores.com for this opportunity, and stay tuned for the finished product coming soon.

disclaimer: I received the above bedding set at no charge in exchange for my review. Rest assured that all opinions are my own and I am not being paid for a positive review.

Friday, February 11, 2011

Future Nurse


Big brother is home sick from school today with a fever. Little sister is very concerned about him. And as much as sibling rivalry drives me nuts, moments like these make me melt.

Wednesday, February 2, 2011

Disney On Ice: Princess Wishes Ticket Giveaway


My four year old daughter is firmly entrenched in the Princess stage. So I know she'll be so excited to see all her favorites on the ice next week at Disney On Ice's Princess Wishes show!

Starting next week, you can catch Tinkerbell, Mulan, Ariel, Snow White and all the others at the First Mariner Arena! Below are show times and ticket information. You can score 4 tickets for 44 dollars for the weekday show, or 4 dollars off weekend shows too, just use the code MOM when ordering.

1st Mariner Arena, Baltimore MD, February 9th -13th

Show Times:
Weds. Feb. 9th at 7:30 p.m.
Thurs. Feb. 10th at 7:30 p.m.
Friday, Feb. 11th at 10:30 a.m. and 7:30 p.m.
Sat. Feb. 12th at 11:00 a.m., 2:30 p.m. and 6:30 p.m.
Sun. Feb. 13th at 12:30 p.m. and 4:30 p.m.

Venue/Ticket Information:

Visit www.ticketmaster.com or by calling 800-551-SEAT. Tickets may also be purchased at Ticketmaster Retail Locations, or by purchasing them at the arena’s box office. For Group Sales, call (410) 347-2006.

THE GIVEAWAY
I have four tickets to give away for opening night! These tickets are ONLY good for opening night, so please check your availability before entering. This giveaway will be open until Feburary 6th and I'll choose and notify the winner on Monday, February 7th. Please make sure I have a valid email address so I can notify you if you win! To enter, leave me a comment below and tell me who your favorite Disney princess is and why. Good luck!

Congrats to Rachel! She wins the 4 pack of tickets to opening night.